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  ex-jw-uk

  by bigmac in

  1. jw
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  i'm quite new to this site, & have realised some members have a union jack symbol under their avatar.

  i don't.. could we have a "show of hands" from any uk members?

  i've already found several by reading older posts..

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  stan livedeath

  do you have any close friends that are ex jws??

  
  

  yes--i do. 2 live local to me--and we meet most weeks. ive also met up with several in the hampshire area--some are members on here.

  but also--theres facebook. i'm on a few xjw groups--either closed--members only--and one--secret--invitation only. there are about 200 UK members on that. if your on fb yourself--please look me up--stan livedeath--and send friend request. i can add you to the groups if you want. anyone else reading this is welcome too.
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  Queued for Processing ....

  by cofty in

  1. forum
  2. tech-support

  if a new topic hangs for ages with spinning icon at "queued for processing " should you give up and post a new copy of the thread or will the eventually result in two threads?.

  if it has cleared the first tick "uploading post" can you safely click away from the page?.

  servers seem a bit slow recently?.

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  stan livedeath

  Simon--can you stick another shilling in the meter ?
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  ex-jw-uk

  by bigmac in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  i'm quite new to this site, & have realised some members have a union jack symbol under their avatar.

  i don't.. could we have a "show of hands" from any uk members?

  i've already found several by reading older posts..

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  stan livedeath

  i live at shanklin--my ex wife is local--shes still a jw--so most likely will know your in-laws.

  ive been out of the cult well over 40 years now----got 2 out of 3 grown up kids still trapped in it--they totally shun me. but--i live with it.
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  ex-jw-uk

  by bigmac in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  i'm quite new to this site, & have realised some members have a union jack symbol under their avatar.

  i don't.. could we have a "show of hands" from any uk members?

  i've already found several by reading older posts..

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  stan livedeath

  certainly uk stan.....hampshire

  
  

  there are quite a few in Hampshire on here--i'm over on the I o Wight
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  ex-jw-uk

  by bigmac in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  i'm quite new to this site, & have realised some members have a union jack symbol under their avatar.

  i don't.. could we have a "show of hands" from any uk members?

  i've already found several by reading older posts..

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  stan livedeath

  bumped for greedy banker--and any other newbies and lurkers in the UK
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  Hey ya'll! My first post. Please help. In need of advice/comfort.

  by Stepford Wife in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  hey ya'll!

  i have been lurking for years on this site and others but never had the courage to post anything.

  actually i was afraid of posting on an apostate site in the event i was wrong.

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  stan livedeath

  hello Greedy Banker --and welcome to jwn.

  i see from your profile youre in the UK---so heres a link to lots of others of us.:

  http://www.jehovahs-witness.com/topic/197364/ex-jw-uk?page=1&size=20
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  What Should the Minimum Wage Be (USA)?

  by Village Idiot in

  1. social
  2. current

  during the gop debates donald trump said that american’s “wages [are] too high” and later said “that having a low minimum wage is not a bad thing for this country” (7:25)..

  do you agree and if so why?.

  my two cents on this issue; do the math.

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  stan livedeath

  LoveUniHateExams43 minutes ago

  What about people flocking to areas with higher minimum wages? Wouldn't it contribute to accelerated urbanization? - good questions, and I don't think that accelerated urbanization is a good thing.

  In the more expensive parts of London, e.g. Chelsea, South Kensington, it's impossible for someone on the minimum wage plus London Waiting to live in these areas

  i think you mean London Weighting
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  Hey ya'll! My first post. Please help. In need of advice/comfort.

  by Stepford Wife in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  hey ya'll!

  i have been lurking for years on this site and others but never had the courage to post anything.

  actually i was afraid of posting on an apostate site in the event i was wrong.

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  stan livedeath

  welcome to jwn Stepford.

  my take on this--is to get your husband well and truly on your side. be extra wifey to him--in all ways. make him realise what he could lose.

  then ask him to handle all the elder interest in you. your reason could--quite correctly--be that something has stumbled you very badly and you need time to work it out for yourself---and that you are happy to wait on jehover to show you the way.
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  Thought control - sexual fantasizing is wrong - May 2016 Watchtower

  by Listener in

  1. watchtower
  2. bible

  >>the bible reveals that jehovah issaddened when people pursue a wick-ed course and ‘the inclination of theirthoughts is only bad all the time.’ (readgenesis 6:5, 6.

  ) from this we can per-ceive that sexual fantasizing is wrongbecause it can lead to serious sin that isforbidden in the scriptures and is out ofharmony with jehovah’s way of think-ing.the disciple james wrote: “the wis-dom from above is first of all pure, thenpeaceable, reasonable, ready to obey,full of mercy and good fruits, impar-tial, not hypocritical.” (jas.

  3:17) beingaware of this, we should be moved toreject entertainment that fuels impurethoughts and inclinations.

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  stan livedeath

  for once i have to agree with the watchtower.

  for years i used to fantasize about a particular sister in the congregation. she was lovely. she was my hearts desire. she was married--so was i.

  and what good did this do me ?

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  i ended up banging the living daylights out of her. booked a suite in a hotel and did it in style. lost count at 17 times that night. went on to shack up together. best sex ive ever had. it lasted best part of a year. i still have very vivid memories of it all.

  and that all happened 35 years ago.
  
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  Any ExJw Millenials here? If not which Gen do you fall under?

  by Hidethevelociraptors in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  if anyone had to guess, what do you think the average age of the community actually is?.

  are more millennials actually waking up or is it pretty even amongst previous generations as well?

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  stan livedeath

  whats reddit ?

  i was a pioneer and a servant years before 1975 became so popular.

  -----long before elders had been invented.

  -----circuit assemblies started on friday evening.